Why does everything still run through me?
- Clare Mayell
- Mar 24
- 1 min read
Updated: 3 days ago
You’ve got a team. You’ve got systems. Maybe you’ve even done the whole "write it all down" thing. And yet…Every decision, every approval, every problem still lands in your lap.
Sound familiar?
This happens in a lot of growing businesses — especially when things have scaled quickly or roles aren’t clearly defined. Often it’s not a people problem — it’s a visibility and trust problem.
Here’s what to check:
🟠 Have you actually handed things over — or just assumed it would happen?

🟠 Does your team know what they’re allowed to decide? Or do they wait for sign-off every time?
🟠 Are there simple systems or templates to guide them? Most people want to do the right thing — they just don’t want to mess it up
🟠 Are you stepping back — or jumping back in? It’s easy to accidentally re-take control if things feel messy
🟠 Do people feel confident without you? That’s often about clarity, not competence
Getting out of the middle doesn’t mean disappearing — it means building a business where people can take action without always needing your OK.
Want help spotting what’s still running through you?
Start by understanding your Business Personality Type — it might explain what you're holding onto (and why). Take the free quiz and see where to let go without losing control.
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